My sister recently sent our family group text an article about how Americans should party more, so, taking that note, I decided to throw myself a small birthday gathering this month. Iā€™m planning to invite a few friends over for chocolate mousse. After all, life is short, and you only turn 46 once! šŸ˜‰

The chocolate mousse at Lā€™Appartement 4F is an inspiration.

As for what to wear, a velvet dresses could be so lovelyā€¦

A midi length feels grown-up and elegant, especially with a deep red lip.

How pretty is this swingy number with little gold stars?

Finally, this square neckline! The cap sleeves! The slinky silhouette! The only catch is that that itā€™s very splurgy.

Thoughts? Do you like any of these? Have you thrown yourself a birthday party? There are also lots of velvet dresses on resale sites, like this and this. (And I like the idea of wearing black lace underneath!)

P.S. Thoughts on aging, and the crazy thing we did at my 40th birthday party.