Even if Valentine’s Day isn’t your favorite holiday of the year, it’s still an excuse to ramp up the passion with your partner—and that’s never anything to complain about. (The impossible task of scoring a dinner reservation, however, is another story….) But how, exactly, to elevate your sex game on February 14? For starters, it helps to have the right toys on your nightstand—ones that’ll help send both you and your date into a blissed-out state. Luckily, we’ve got no shortage of suggestions for sexy Valentine’s Day gifts that aim to help you crank up the heat in a healthy way, whether you’re partnered up or just looking to give yourself some much-deserved TLC. From lacy lingerie to slippery lubes to “love potions” guaranteed to get you in the mood fast, read on to shop gifts that will make this V-day a lot hotter.
Best sexy Valentine’s Day gifts for setting the mood
Maude Burn “No. 1” Massage Candle — $32.00
Looking to set the mood on a romantic night in? Just strike a match and light this candle from Maude to get things started. Sexy amber and cedar leaf work to set the mood, while warm jojoba wax melts into a silky body oil, perfect for taking things a step further with a sensual massage.
Moon Juice Sex Dust Adaptogenics — $38.00
Add a scoop of this adaptogenic powder to pre-date lattes—one for you, one for your partner—and watch your sexual energy, sensitivity, and stamina fire up in the bedroom. (Or outside of it, if that’s what you’re into.)
Gifts for getting it on
Playground Naked Love Lube — $20.00
This scent-free lube from Playground is silky and simple—it’s made with vegan, all-natural ingredients like ashwagandha and hyaluronic acid for a boost of latex-safe moisture and adaptogens. Plus, we love the non-sticky formula and the fact that it won’t irritate your most sensitive spots.
The Rose Lover’s Gift Box — $79.00
If you haven’t already nabbed yourself or someone you care about a rose suction toy, this is your sign. This pick from Lovers includes the coveted air suction toy—which features three intensity levels and seven vibe patterns—plus a collection of faux roses in a heart-shaped box (cause duh!).
Lelo Tor 3 Pleasure Ring — $119.00
“Ring” in a happy Valentine’s Day (literally) with the Lelo Tor. It’s a soft silicone c-ring that features a vibrating head to add more sensation to your romp. You can even change the eight vibration settings via the Lelo companion app to avoid fumbling around in the moment. Best of all, it’s currently $40 off for Valentine’s Day.
JimmyJane Hello Touch Pro Vibrators — $119.00
These silicone finger vibrators help take your partner’s touch (or your own) to the next level. The set includes two bullet vibes that feature 10 vibration modes and can be used with or without the finger attachments. We also love that this little duo comes in an unassuming case that you can easily take on the go.
Lingerie gifts
Hanky Panky Holiday 5-Pack (V-Day Colors) — $108.00
The gift of great lace undies is honestly an act of self-love. Whether you’re hoping to send a “let’s do this” message to your S/O, or just want to feel a little sexier under your jeans on February 14, this five-pack of lace thongs from Hanky Panky (in Valentine’s Day-themed colors, no less) will deliver.
Lilosy Mesh Valentine’s Day Set — $22.00
Find us a more Valentine’s Day-appropriate lingerie set—we’ll wait. This (super affordable) mesh set from Lilosy is covered in sweet little hearts and bows, fit for the occasion. And if red isn’t your color, it comes in over 20 different options. Sizes range from 3XS to 3XL.
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